Disclaimer- I have no interest in leaving my wife or cheating or anything remotely close. This is just an observation that is probably only interesting to me. Lol
I have no idea if what people find attractive normally changes a lot in their life or not. It’s not something I talk to people about. But at 39 I have lived long enough to see my tastes shift. There is still an underlying consistency (brunettes over blondes for instance) but recent shifts that are likely more related to tv shows than anything else. Vague enough?
I work a weekend job and one of the managers I find rather attractive. I can’t describe her because I suck at describing people. She has awesome hair though, and it vaguely reminds me of Alex’s hair in Supergirl, which then creates a loose association with that character, making her instantly cooler. Or maybe that’s totally unrelated but it’s logical to me.
I suspect there’s a lot of that subconscious stuff involved in first impressions. And since I have too much time on my hands sometimes at work this is what I think about. Lol we have so many more lesbian characters available now, with a lot more visual variety. I don’t get out much to meet lesbians in the real world so tv is my primary source. I know it’s a bit sad but mixing introverts with chronic illness, a toddler and building business to get beyond survival makes it difficult to meet people.
So those are my random thoughts for today.