Sex can be good for the psyche. It alleviates fears and reminds you that there are more connections beyond mental and emotional. Which shouldn’t be hard to remember in a marriage, but when your life is full of constant challenges, it can be. *note, not problems. Problems are very different from challenges*
*personal cut for some personal stuff that I’ll only vaguely hint at*
The bit of practicing I’ve been doing has helped, and Carrie appreciated it. I know it should be about me, but it’s more about us. Either way, it helped, and I was able to tell her. She appreciated that even more, because talking about things is pretty tough on me sometimes. But I’m learning, and growing, and will get there eventually. Besides, if I didn’t have issues, how could we grow still after 7 years together. lol
